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Are you ready for your best sex ever? We tend to look outside ourselves for turn-ons, but understanding how our erotic mind works can lead to our hottest experiences.

Knowing our erotic minds, understanding what we need in bed and why, and being true to that, is the bedrock on which all our sexual experiences should sit.


But so many of us haven’t explored our inner worlds, learnt the science or examined our beliefs. This workshop gives you the opportunity to do so.

Sex life coach and erotic expert Ruth Ramsay will guide and support you in this 90-minute workshop, where you will:

  • Learn where your beliefs around sex come from

  • Understand how this affects your intimate behaviour

  • Appreciate the role stress has in sexual response

  • Explore your ‘erotic blueprint’

  • Decode your mind’s secret messages about your peak turn-ons

  • ...and more!


You will receive a workbook to fill in during the workshop, to create your own unique roadmap to more pleasure.

Ruth Ramsay sitting on a rug planning her Understanding Your Erotic Mind workshop

"I had never thought about sex in quite this way until I took this workshop. My mind is blown! I understand myself so much better and many mysteries of what has been going wrong in my sex life in the past are now solved. I look forward to putting what I have learnt into practice in my next relationship."

Mylee, 31

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  • Who is The Passion8 Programme for?
    Everyone who wants to learn about sex and about themselves, in order to improve their intimate life. You'll come away with deep understanding of sex, your sexual self, how others might be, how to communicate, how to make time for sex, sex in changing life stages, your fantasies, and lots more. So far the youngest student has been early-20s and the eldest, mid-80s! You do need to be ready and able to imagine the future positively and take action steps towards that. If you feel held back by trauma in the past, please address that first, with therapy or counselling.
  • "I'm currently single - is there any point in doing Passion8 now?"
    Being single is actually a GREAT time for this. You can be super-honest with yourself about what you want and need, without taking a partner into account. Imagine going into your next encounter or relationship empowered with that knowledge, along with the communication skills the course will teach you?
  • "I'd love to do the course, but my partner won't be up for it"
    I've seen relationships transformed by one partner taking the course (typically a female partner in a heterosexual relationship who hasn't necessarily told her boyfriend/husband that she's even doing the course...). Sometimes it takes one partner to be brave and take a step like this initially alone.
  • "Will I have to do a full-moon dance, buy a crystal yoni egg, and other woo-woo stuff?"
    No! The Passion8 Programme uses coaching methodology and is based around verbal and written exercises and learning. Of course if singing, dancing and crystals are your thing, you're welcome to add those. The course supports you in finding what’s right for YOU.
  • "Are there practical exercises? I don't think I'm ready for that"
    No, there are no practical exercises or homework. There is plenty that may inspire you to explore practically! - but that's entirely up to you, at your own pace.
  • "Something bad happened to me and I haven't been able to enjoy intimacy since. Will this course help?"
    The fact you're even considering this course suggests you're on a path of healing, which is great. However, coaching is suited to people who are ready to look positively into their future and take active steps forward. If trauma from the past holds you back, then counselling/therapy with a trained psychotherapist is a better first step. [In the UK, mental health charity MIND has a comprehensive list of support organisations. Search engines will help you find similar in other countries.]
  • “What if I have questions during the course – do I get 1-2-1 time with you?”
    I am available throughout the course on email to answer quick questions (ones that will take me less than ten minutes to reply to). If you need more in-depth support, you can arrange a 1-2-1 session with me at a special Passion8 members' rate.
  • “What if I sign up, then am disappointed?”
    If you engage fully with the course, and at the end don't feel it has had any beneficial effect on your sexual life, I'll give you your course fee back (see T&Cs for more on this here). Note - no-one has ever taken me up on this, in fact I often get told after just a couple of modules that the course fee has already been worth every penny!
  • "Do I keep access to the materials after the course ends?"
    You have access to the full course materials for six months. You can download the workbooks and resource lists to keep forever.
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