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It's time for the most pleasurable, playful, connected sex of your life...



"A life-changing experience" "Hugely empowering"
"Sex now feels relaxed, fun, and full of possibility!"

Do you long for a more exciting, playful, juicy and fulfilling sex life, but have no idea how to make a change?

Maybe you feel your sex life would need a miracle to revive it... or you're not sure you even know what good sex is... 

... Or maybe you're in a great relationship where the erotic spark has gone and you're longing to revive it...

Whichever of the above resonates, I've got you. The Passion8 Programme is a pleasure-focused, eight-week, step by step journey into what YOU need for a vibrant sex life. Participation is anonymous - you don't have to talk or share.

It's NEVER too late to aim for a happier, healthier sex life: whether you're single or in a relationship; whether you're 21 or 61; whether you're wildly experienced or feel like a newbie. As a sex coach, I've seen people transform at all ages and from all sorts of situations. It can feel like a dire sex life is a shameful secret no-one can help with, or that keeping your relationship hot is an impossible dream. But over eight weeks, I will gently take you from embarrassed and uninformed to confident and empowered; or from wondering "can we reignite the spark?" to KNOWING you can!
Imagine having intimate, connected, exhilarating sex , with the confidence and communication skills to ask for what you want, and to be a great lover. How would life outside the bedroom change - would you be a happier, healthier version of you? The Passion8 Programme will take you there.

  • Eight week online course - eight modules (details below)

  • Full privacy/anonymity, no compulsory sharing

  • Suitable for all genders and sexualities, singles, couples, thruples...

  • 60-75 minute presentation from Ruth each week to watch at a time of your choosing

  • Weekly guided coaching workbooks, to apply lessons to yourself 

  • Regular motivation to keep up with the programme

  • Extensive resource lists (100-plus hours optional content)

  • Email support

  • Money-back guarantee if you're not satisfied (subject to T&Cs).


  • Module One: Your Core Erotic Type. Move from confusion and embarrassment, to understanding your core erotic personality

  • Module Two: Your Erotic Mind. Release negative emotional patterns and beliefs, choose empowering new ones, and play detective to discover your mind's deepest turn-ons

  • Module Three: Your Erotic Body. Be knowledgeable about your anatomy and the science of arousal (they didn't teach you this at school!)

  • Module Four: Partners In Bliss. Learn to confidently communicate and empathise with a partner, and ensure everyone's needs are blissfully met

  • Module Five: Prioritising Pleasure. Stop "never having time" for sex, with practical tools to make play is not pushed off the agenda

  • Module Six: Between The Sheets. Apply what you've learnt to what actually happens when you get it on - be that solo or with company

  • Module Seven: Fantasies & Beyond. Fantasies, kink, ethical non-monogamy... Explore and learn how to bring chosen elements into your sex life safely and healthily.

  • Module Eight: A Passionate Life. Bring it all together into sexual experiences that will blow not only your mind but also your soul

Ruth Ramsay, Adult Sex Educator and Coach, showing her rib tattoo of the lyrics from Rapture by iiO

"The programme has enabled us to compassionately challenge our thoughts and beliefs about sex and eroticism, and given us the tools to remodel and express ourselves however we intuitively desire. A life-changing experience."


Emma, 35 and Toby, 38

Ruth Ramsay, Adult Sex Educator and Coach, The Passion 8 Programme Logo

Imagine the happiness, playfulness and awesome sex that comes with knowing (and loving) yourself better, knowing what you want, how to communicate that, and how to prioritise pleasure in your life. This course will teach you all that - and so much more.

Are you ready?

Register below to be notified when registration opens for September 2024

  • Who is The Passion8 Programme for?
    Everyone who wants to learn about sex and about themselves, in order to improve their intimate life. You'll come away with deep understanding of sex, your sexual self, how others might be, how to communicate, how to make time for sex, sex in changing life stages, your fantasies, and lots more. So far the youngest student has been early-20s and the eldest, mid-80s! You do need to be ready and able to imagine the future positively and take action steps towards that. If you feel held back by trauma in the past, please address that first, with therapy or counselling.
  • "I'm currently single - is there any point in doing Passion8 now?"
    Being single is actually a GREAT time for this. You can be super-honest with yourself about what you want and need, without taking a partner into account. Imagine going into your next encounter or relationship empowered with that knowledge, along with the communication skills the course will teach you?
  • "I'd love to do the course, but my partner won't be up for it"
    I've seen relationships transformed by one partner taking the course (typically a female partner in a heterosexual relationship who hasn't necessarily told her boyfriend/husband that she's even doing the course...). Sometimes it takes one partner to be brave and take a step like this initially alone.
  • "Will I have to do a full-moon dance, buy a crystal yoni egg, and other woo-woo stuff?"
    No! The Passion8 Programme uses coaching methodology and is based around verbal and written exercises and learning. Of course if singing, dancing and crystals are your thing, you're welcome to add those. The course supports you in finding what’s right for YOU.
  • "Are there practical exercises? I don't think I'm ready for that"
    No, there are no practical exercises or homework. There is plenty that may inspire you to explore practically! - but that's entirely up to you, at your own pace.
  • "Something bad happened to me and I haven't been able to enjoy intimacy since. Will this course help?"
    The fact you're even considering this course suggests you're on a path of healing, which is great. However, coaching is suited to people who are ready to look positively into their future and take active steps forward. If trauma from the past holds you back, then counselling/therapy with a trained psychotherapist is a better first step. [In the UK, mental health charity MIND has a comprehensive list of support organisations. Search engines will help you find similar in other countries.]
  • “What if I have questions during the course – do I get 1-2-1 time with you?”
    I am available throughout the course on email to answer quick questions (ones that will take me less than ten minutes to reply to). If you need more in-depth support, you can arrange a 1-2-1 session with me at a special Passion8 members' rate.
  • “What if I sign up, then am disappointed?”
    If you engage fully with the course, and at the end don't feel it has had any beneficial effect on your sexual life, I'll give you your course fee back (see T&Cs for more on this here). Note - no-one has ever taken me up on this, in fact I often get told after just a couple of modules that the course fee has already been worth every penny!
  • "Do I keep access to the materials after the course ends?"
    You have access to the full course materials for six months. You can download the workbooks and resource lists to keep forever.
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