Ruth Ramsay Adult Sex Educator and Coach in a flowery dress sitting on a purple sofa with her elbows on her knees

It's time to stop avoiding bed with your partner (saying “I’ll be up in a few minutes...”), and start leading them up the stairs by the hand; to stop worrying you’re doomed to be ‘like housemates’, and start fancying each other again...

To stop secretly thinking after sex, “Thank goodness that’s ticked that off the list for another week”, and start saying “WOW. Can we do that again tomorrow?”...

To stop worrying there’s something wrong with you, and start realising you’re normal (and wonderful)!

Ready to transform your sex life from “Is this it?” to "Yes yes YES"?

I'm Ruth Ramsay, adult sex educator and coach, TEDx speaker and erotic expert. I have a proven process to help you deeply understand who you are sexually, what you want and need, and how to bring this to life.

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The Passion8 Programme

Go back to sex school and create your unique roadmap to pleasure, with my self-study course for singles and couples

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Learn the beautiful and empowering art of striptease and connect deeply to your erotic spirit.

"I feel sexier, full of self-acceptance and I'm opening up to experiences I'd always fantasied about. I'm loving the new me and my partner has been very pleasantly surprised by my new-found confidence!"

Helen, 42