Enjoy sex that's about pleasure,
not pressure

Men: become confident, masterful and relaxed in bed... Women: learn to switch off from to-do lists and work with your body to ease into bliss. I'm Ruth Ramsay, sexual pleasure and wellness coach for couples. I will give you the skills and knowledge to revolutionise your relationship, inside the bedroom and out. You'll both experience such pleasure that you'll want to do it again, and again, and again.
Work with Me

Begin Your Journey
The top five things I want you to know about sex and intimacy, plus a resource to begin your journey right away.

Expand Your Knowledge
Two foundational workshops that will revolutionise your skills and transform your experience in bed.

Achieve Mastery
Engage my unique personal support in a journey to true sexual mastery: confidence, connection and pleasure you'd never dreamt of.
How do I help? I blend coaching, educating, and occasionally mentoring, depending on your unique needs. I share information and mindset shifts in a way you can understand and put into action fast, and my coaching style is upbeat and shame-free. I'm often told "You made us feel so safe to talk openly."
Men: I've been a trusted ear for men to talk openly about their sex lives for over 20 years. You don't need to fear judgement from me: for your worries, desires, habits and fantasies. Women: I've been studying female arousal and desire for over a decade, and have my own first-hand experience of sustaining passion in a long-term relationship.
I'm a trusted voice in the media and on stages around the world, and over 3.4 million people have viewed my TEDx talk, 'Revamp Your Sex Life In Six Minutes'.




