Ruth Ramsay Adult Sex Educator and Coach in a flowery dress sitting on a purple sofa with her elbows on her knees

I'm Ruth, sex educator and coach, UK Erotic Award winner and erotic expert. I'm here to help you transform your sexual life to one of joy, confidence and pleasure.

Through my online courses or private coaching, I'll help you understand who you are sexually, what you truly want and need, and how to experience this. Get ready to feel deeply fulfilled.

Ready to transform your sex life from “is this it?” to "yes yes YES"?

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1-2-1 Transformation

Experience a powerful 1-2-1 coaching journey to transform your sexual world

The Passion8 Programme

My eight-part course, guiding you through a total overhaul of your sexual life

Striptease Lessons

Learn the beautiful and empowering art of striptease and connect deeply to your erotic spirit.

" I wouldn't have been able to have this kind of mind-blowing, categorically different, life-altering sex without you! Thank you! "

Zoe, 44