Coming up in Oct, Nov, & Dec
- Ruth Ramsay

- Oct 15
- 2 min read

How are you doing, as autumn sets in proper in the Northern hemisphere? My fluffy luxe socks have come out as part of my standard sex-kit… Having cold feet (or cold anything) is a definite ‘brake’ for me to optimal arousal. Southern hemisphere readers, enjoy welcoming in spring. I wish I could come and join you for half the year!
Wherever you are in the world, you can join my online workshops/presentations, whether live or watching the recording. Here’s what I have coming up for you.
I’m experimenting with putting my events on Humanitix (a mainstream platform similar to Eventbrite, but which donates 100 per cent of booking fees profits to charity), as well as WAX (dedicated sexy-events platform). So you can choose which you are most comfortable to buy from.
Understanding Your Sexual Mind – online, Wednesday 15 October
Confused why conventional ‘better sex’ advice doesn’t work for you? Give me 90 minutes of your attention and I'll take you through proven exercises to give you deep insight into what makes YOU tick.
Stripper Life Drawing – Ruth aka Solitaire. Near Liverpool Street, London, Monday 10 November
Come and draw me as I perform around the pole, and hear tales of my decade-plus dancing in the East End and beyond. THIS SELLS OUT: if you want to come, book quick! All artist levels welcome.
Better Sex For Men – online, Tuesday 11 November
In this NEW presentation I address the biggest concerns which bring heterosexual men to coaching. Including: “My penis isn’t big enough / hard enough / I don’t last long enough”; “Sex in my relationship has got boring, how can I liven it up?”; “She almost always says no – how can I make her want it more?”
Your First Play Party – online, Monday 1 December
Are you curious to go to your first sex party, and wanting to feel well-prepared (or had lacklustre experiences so far and want to make the next one better)? This workshop is for you. "The workshop helped us to feel confident, connected, and truly prepared for our night - we were honestly blown away at how much of an impact it had."
Beginners’ Striptease Skills – online, Thursday 4 December
The secrets of the creative prep, theory and mindset that underlies a great performance, plus some key tips and tricks – all applied to a boa routine. Surprise your partner with a Christmas strip! No clothes removed, all welcome.
I have a couple of spaces for in-person private striptease lessons in London before Christmas, and two spaces becoming available in my coaching diary. So reach out if you’d like my 121 support.
Wishing you a sexy new season, wherever you are.



