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“I’m a 68 year old straight male who's been on the dating scene for over 50 years. I grew up unsporty and into nerdy things; went to an all-male school; mainly-male university; and into a male-dominated work environment. Attractive women have been rare in my world and when I have met any, I’m been smitten - but it has never gone anywhere. Consequently I have spent quite a bit of time and money with escorts. Ruth understands why and doesn’t judge. I booked a couple of one-hour coaching sessions with her almost as confessionals, about things I have felt were forbidden to talk about. Ruth has helped me explore what I most want going forward - a committed relationship – and steps to get there. I am now signed up with a matchmaking agency. I realise there will be a transition to make, if I am matched successfully, between those paid-for 'moments' and 'real life' sex. At which point I will book another session with Ruth for support around that. It is invaluable to have such a genuinely non-judgemental ear to confide in." Michael H, 68, retiree

“Ruth is phenomenal. My wife and I have had a few sessions with her and we honestly cannot say enough good things. We’re both 34 years old, and Ruth has really helped us open up to each other - talking about our wants, desires, and how to better understand one another. She has offered great strategies and thoughtful suggestions that have made a real difference in how we communicate and our intimacy with one another. Ruth is also incredibly responsive and follows up consistently. She always checks in and gets back to us quickly with answers to any questions. She has such great energy and a calm, trustworthy presence. We look forward to continuing to work with her for as long as we can.” Alex, 34

“Ruth is a gift. She is an insider in the world of women, willing to share the inside track. God knows I needed her help. Growing up, my Dad wasn’t around to show me the ropes, plus I attended a mildly fundamentalist Christian church. We were told, "Until marriage, don’t touch someone else’s body part if you don’t have it yourself." I was sent to a Catholic boys' school where, during an awkward sex education lesson, one boy threw up and another fainted. That lesson was the beginning and end of my sex ed. Fast forward to marriage, and as a 30-year-old virgin, I felt like an insecure teenager. Twenty years later we have a few kids in the mix: yes, we figured out the mechanics of intercourse… but not the dynamics of intimacy. Something had to change. In a moment of desperate Googling, I found Ruth. Right from the start, I felt I could ask her anything. I sensed she wanted the best for me. With her ‘unconventional’ job in the past [a striptease artist], I felt she wouldn’t have hang-ups about my unusual questions. As a coach, she is part listener, part educator, part problem-solver - an all-around compassionate and wise human. She tailored our sessions based on what she learned about my religious background. Ruth enabled me to figure out what my partner might be thinking and feeling. I feel so lucky to have a coach who is an insider - a woman who can help me amp up my sexiness, so that my partner wants me inside of her, as well as alongside her in our marriage. Ruth will teach you to speak your truth in thoughtful, not desperate or demanding, ways. She will create an environment for you to grow in every way possible. Ruth will help you become a bigger man.” Franklin, 49